I have two college-age daughters, one a sophomore and one six months from graduation. So when I participated in a recent panel discussion bringing together some of Charlotte’s top women in business, the topic hit home: How can we help young women and aspiring leaders grow their careers while thriving outside of the office?

I had a great time sharing my own career path and lessons learned on the journey — from art director to agency owner and fierce protector of a creative culture loaded with young talent.

It hasn’t ever been easy, but sometimes the most difficult obstacles help shape the experiences that make us stronger. I didn’t understand that at 22, and I still don’t have all the answers. But I hope my experiences will help you maximize your future, whether you’re a student, young professional or industry veteran.

1. Follow your passion.

When I told my parents I wanted to be an art major at Penn State, I saw the uncertainty in their eyes. But I didn’t want a more “stable” career in business or finance. I wanted to do what I loved, even if that meant less money and more ramen noodles. Needless to say, I’m glad I followed my passion.

2. Practice patience.

Brene Brown said “we risk missing out on joy when we get too busy chasing down the extraordinary.” Don’t be in such a hurry to get your big break that you miss out on the stuff that’s only possible when you’re young. Step back. Take a deep breath. Take it all in. Be flexible and open to curveballs and roadblocks along the way. Many times, they turn out to be gifts.

3. Invest in your future.

I wish I’d gotten my MBA, built up other skill sets and expanded my knowledge of the world while I had time. I’m thrilled my older daughter will pursue a master’s in speech therapy — a field that feels purposeful to her. I’m not saying everyone should go to grad school. But that weekend retreat or monthlong workshop or one-hour seminar may be exactly what you need to energize your career or even discover a new passion.

4. Travel before you start a family.

I didn’t take a gap year after high school or college (I got right to work). I didn’t strap on a backpack and set out to see the world with economy airline tickets and hostel reservations and a dusty pair of boots. I wish I had. We live in a global world, and seeing and experiencing new places and cultures can open our eyes to new ways of thinking.